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\u4eca\u5e74\u53d1\u751f\u7684personal\u7684\u5927\u4e8b\u6bd4\u8f83\u591a\uff0c\u6211\u89c9\u5f97\u548c\u4ee5\u5f80\u76f8\u6bd4\uff0c\u6211\u7684\u751f\u6d3b\u6bd4\u8f83\u5145\u5b9e\u4e86\u4e00\u70b9\u3002\u4e0a\u534a\u5e74\u8fc7\u5f97\u6bd4\u8f83\u52a8\u4e71\uff0c\u4e0b\u534a\u5e74\u53c8\u8fc7\u4e8eintrospective\u3002\u5bb6\u91cc\u53d1\u751f\u7684\u90a3\u4e48\u591a\u4e8b\u8ba9\u6211\u89c9\u5f97\u65e0\u8a00\u4ee5\u5bf9\u3002\u6211\u5e26\u6709\u4e00\u70b9resignation\u5730\u611f\u5230\uff0cI have to live on my own alone. It’s better to spend your life in loneliness than in regret. \u8fd8\u53d1\u751f\u4e86\u90a3\u4ef6illusion\u7834\u706d\u7684\u4f24\u5fc3\u4e8b\uff0c\u5c3d\u7ba1\u73b0\u5728\u6211\u518d\u60f3\u8d77\u8fd9\u4ef6\u4e8b\uff0c\u5df2\u7ecf\u6ca1\u6709\u539f\u5148\u90a3\u79cd\u5f3a\u70c8\u7684agony\u4e86\uff0c\u6211\u4e0d\u7981\u89c9\u5f97\u8fd9\u79cd\u7ed3\u5c40\u662fbest alternative\uff1a\u7b49\u5230\u6211\u81ea\u5df1fully accept myself\u4e4b\u540e\u6211\u518d\u53bb\u8981\u6c42\u522b\u4eba\u63a5\u53d7\u6211\u5427\uff0c\u4f46\u662f\u5f53\u521d\u6211\u8981\u6c42\u90a3\u4e2a\u6211\u6700\u5e0c\u671b\u6765\u5173\u5fc3\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u4eba\u4e0d\u8981\u6765\u8054\u7cfb\u6211\u7684\u65f6\u5019\uff0c\u7684\u786e\u662f\u5fc3\u4e5f\u788e\u4e86\u3002\u6691\u5047\u91cc\u548c\u540c\u5b66\u53d1\u751f\u4e86\u4e00\u573a\u51b2\u7a81\uff0c\u76f4\u5230\u73b0\u5728\uff0c\u6211\u4e5f\u65e0\u6cd5have peace with that matter\uff0c\u4ee5\u81f3\u4e8e\u6574\u6574\u4e00\u4e2a\u5b66\u671f\u90fd\u89c9\u5f97\u5230\u5904\u90fd\u662f\u654c\u610f\u7684\u76ee\u5149\u3002\u53ef\u662f\u5947\u602a\u7684\u662f\uff0c\u6709\u4e86\u8fd9\u79cd\u611f\u89c9\u4e4b\u540e\uff0c\u6211\u53cd\u800c\u80fd\u548c\u522b\u4eba\u4ea4\u6d41\u4e86\u3002<\/p>\n
\u4eca\u5e74\u770b\u7684\u65b0\u4e66\u4e0d\u591a\uff0c\u53ea\u770b\u4e86\u661f\u6218\u7684\u51e0\u672c\u4e66\u3002\u4f46\u662f\u5bf9\u4e00\u4e9b\u4ee5\u524d\u770b\u8fc7\u7684\u6587\u7ae0\u6709\u4e86\u65b0\u7684\u601d\u8003\u3002\u7ed9\u6211\u6bd4\u8f83\u591a\u601d\u8003\u7684\u6587\u7ae0\u6709the art of unhappiness\u3001Solitude of\u00a0 Self\u3001<\u7f57\u7d20\u8bba\u4eba\u751f>\u4e2d\u7684\u4e00\u4e9b\u6587\u7ae0\uff0c\u8fd8\u6709\u7167\u4f8b\u6211\u8fd8\u662f\u65f6\u4e0d\u65f6\u4f1a\u7ffb\u7ffb\u300a\u6211\u7684\u7cbe\u795e\u5bb6\u56ed\u300b\u3002\u524d\u4e24\u5929\u770b\u7684Anita Naik\u5199\u7684\u300aLazy Girl’s Guide to Health\u300b\u4e2d\u63d0\u5230\u7684\u4e00\u4e9b\u5f88\u597d\u7684\u5efa\u8bae\u4e5f\u7ed9\u6211\u5e26\u6765\u4e86\u5f88\u591a\u7f8e\u597d\u7684\u611f\u89c9\u3002\u4eca\u5e74\u770b\u4e86\u4e00\u5e74\u7684\u300a\u7535\u8111\u62a5\u300b\u548c\u300a\u82f1\u8bed\u6587\u6458\u300b\u4e2d\uff0c\u6709\u5f88\u591a\u6211\u5f88\u559c\u6b22\u7684\u6587\u7ae0\u3002<\/p>\n
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\u660e\u5e74\u5c06\u662f\u6211\u5728\u8fd9\u4e2a\u4e16\u754c\u4e0a\u7684\u7b2c21\u4e2a\u5e74\u5934\u3002\u6211\u5e0c\u671b\u81ea\u5df1\u80fd\u751f\u6d3b\u5f97\u66f4\u5065\u5eb7\u4e00\u70b9\uff1b\u5e0c\u671b\u81ea\u5df1\u80fd\u811a\u8e0f\u5b9e\u5730\u5730\u627e\u5230\u81ea\u5df1\u7684confidence\uff1b\u80fd\u5fe0\u4e8e\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u611f\u60c5\uff0c\u4e0d\u8981\u8001\u662f\u505a\u540e\u6094\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\uff1b\u80fd\u591f\u4e0d\u8981\u5bb3\u6015\uff0c\u65e2\u4e0d\u5bb3\u6015\u522b\u4eba\uff0c\u4e5f\u4e0d\u5bb3\u6015\u81ea\u5df1\uff0c\u66f4\u4e0d\u8981\u5bb3\u6015\u5b64\u72ec\uff0c\u800c\u8981\u6210\u4e3a\u4e00\u4e2a\u5065\u5168\u7684\u4eba\uff1b\u8fd8\u8981\u518d\u8010\u5fc3\u4e00\u70b9\u3002\u6211\u5e38\u5e38\u89c9\u5f97\uff0cNobody feels those feelings I feel most acutely. \u8981\u660e\u767d\uff0c\u4e0d\u7ba1\u662f\u51fa\u4e8e\u4ec0\u4e48\u539f\u56e0\uff0c\u6211\u81ea\u5df1\u4e0d\u80fddeny them\u3002\u8981\u5fe0\u4e8e\u81ea\u5df1\uff0c\u800c\u4e0d\u662f\u6025\u4e8eplease others eagerly.<\/p>\n
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